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July 17, 2018 05:22 AM

COURSTEY MIRROR JULY 17

ASK THE SEXPERT
DR MAHINDER WATSA

1 My girlfriend is adventurous when it comes to sex. However, I am not entirely comfortable with everything she is eager to try. For example, I hate it when she wants to give me a blowjob. But, at the same time, I do not want her to be upset. What can I do to tactfully make her understand how I feel about this?

Learn not to hate love otherwise it will fly out of the window. Talk to her about things you might want to minimise and do not like, and arrive at a decision on the things that give you extra pleasure and which both of you enjoy.


2 I am a 25-year-old man. I feel comfortable around women but I am not attracted to them. However, just to be clear, I am not attracted to men either. Do I have some kind of health problem? Would you recommend that I consult a psychologist about this?

Please have your hormones checked by an endocrinologist, and then visit a specialist who can help you.

3 I am a 20-year-old woman and I have romantic feelings for my cousin brother. We share a close bond and always share each other’s problems. But I have not been able to gather the courage to tell him how I feel about him, as it could lead to complications and I do not want to spoil our relationship. I know that we don’t have a future together, but I want to know if it would be fine for us to get into a physical relationship and keep it at that.

In some communities marriage is permitted between cousins. If this is not the case in your community, please do not go any further

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