COURSTEY MIRROR MUMBAI APRIL 29

ASK THE SEXPERT
DR MAHINDER WATSA

1 My girlfriend gave me a hand job and later she adjusted her underwear with her finger, which had cum on it. Her underwear was wet too. Could she have been impregnated this way? Her period is 21 days late.

While it is rare for a pregnancy to occur in such circumstances, since she has missed her period, ask her to do a urine pregnancy test (kits are available at the chemist) to confirm whether she is pregnant. Visit a gynaecologist at the earliest for the appropriate treatment and to identify the cause of delay.

2 I am a 19-year-old man.

At 16, I lost my virginity to an aunty who lives in my building. I have been masturbating excessively since I was 13. When we last had physical relations, I did not get an erection, and as a result, we couldn’t have sex. Has watching porn decreased my libido? I am really worried as my penis is very small too. It is about 2.5 inches when fully erect. I want to be in a relationship with a girl my age and am worried that this will affect future relationships. Will my penis always be this small?

To fulfil your wish for a partner around your own age you need to stop your present activity. Visit a urologist, who will examine and determine the size (of the penis) at rest and at erection and whether it would be adequate for sexual intercourse