COURSTEY MIRROR JUNE 11

ASK THE SEXPERT
DR MAHINDER WATSA

1 Does having sex regularly result in a glowing complexion? My friends tell me that this is one effect, and that sex makes one gain weight as well. Is there any truth to these claims?

The ‘weight gain’ claim is not necessarily true, but you may get glowing skin. During the excitement, the extra blood flow may give you a glow, but this would be temporary.

2 I’m very ticklish. So, when my girlfriend initiates oral sex, I can’t enjoy it. What should I do?

Ideally, talk to your partner about your ticklishness and try and convince her that she should also try to think of it as an extra pleasure.

3 I am 23 years old, but I don’t find women my age attractive. I’m only attracted to older women. There’s this lady in my gym, who’s around 40. We had a one-night stand recently. She wants to keep our relationship restricted to sex alone. However, I want more than that. What should I do? Also, is something wrong with me — why am I only attracted to older women?

Whatever it is that satisfies you is okay. You will have to decide whether the terms set by her are agreeable to you, or whether you want to end your relationship and move on.