COURSTEY MIRRIOR MUMBAI MAY 20

ASK THE SEXPERT
DR MAHINDER WATSA

1 My girlfriend can often have multiple orgasms within the space of a few minutes but I am unable to do the same. This sometimes upsets her so I want to know if there is anyway that I can resume sex immediately after climaxing? I usually have to wait 10-15 minutes.

Half an hour to one hour is usually required for the penis to return to a satisfactory erection. You may try to increase foreplay with your partner and start intercourse even after she reaches orgasm. Try and identify the cause for the multiple orgasms. It is usually achieved by stimulating the clitoris which is situated in the upper most part of the vagina and is a counterpart to the penis.

2 Is it safe to have sex on the beach? It is one of our fantasies but my wife and I are worried about sand getting into our private parts and the risk of infections. But we really want to be adventurous and try it out just like they do in Hollywood movies. What should we do?

Sitting on the sands and swimming is most enjoyable. To avoid insects suggest you carry a mat and don't forget your sandwiches. Also check the area is hygienically situated