courstey  MIRROR  MAY 1

ASK THE SEXPERT
DR MAHINDER WATSA

1 I am 29-year-old man. I used to masturbate eight to 10 times a week. I have controlled my habit. But now when I try to have sex with my girlfriend, my erection is not hard enough to penetrate, which leaves both of us dissatisfied. I get proper erection in the morning when I wake up. I am healthy and do not consume alcohol or tobacco. Please suggest remedies.

You need to ask yourself ‘Why?’. Is it because of anxiety, wrong positions or overdoing foreplay? If you cannot find the answers and correct it, do visit a sexpert.

2 I am a 26-year-old unmarried woman. I’m facing a problem of white discharge and my periods are not regular. Moreover, I get tired really quickly while doing any activity. What should I do?

Often the cause of your symptoms is anaemia, caused due to lack of iron in the body. If you correct that, your menstrual cycle will be corrected. For the excess discharge, you may take tablets that are available at the chemist after consulting a doctor.

3 I am 40 years old and my wife is 37. We are very happy with our sex life. Recently, my wife and I watched some anal sex videos and now she insists we do the same. Although we know it is unnatural, she wants to try it once and has convinced me to do it. We are travelling this weekend and will try it. What should we do?

She should be careful. Ensure a condom is used. The temptation to not use a condom should be avoided. While removing the condom ensure that no trickle of the semen enters the vagina. Suggest that both are satisfied so as not to repeat the act. Use plenty of lubrication to reduce the pain