COURSTEY MIRROR MUMBAI APRIL 30

ASK THE SEXPERT
DR MAHINDER WATSA

1 I am a 28-year-old man. As soon as my girfriend tries to suck or kiss my penis, I ejacuate. Sometimes, when she just sits on my lap, the pressure is enough to make me ejaculate, which I do very quickly. Is there anything I can do to delay the ejaculation, so that the enjoyment may be extended for longer?

Every action by your partner — particularly sitting on your lap — will excite you to the point of wanting to ejaculate. Discuss this with her as, perhaps, with a change of position, you may be able to prolong. If this does not help, you may have, what is termed as ‘premature ejaculation’, and this will require treatment. If that’s the case, you must consult a sexpert.

2 My girlfriend and I enjoy making dolls together. I have been trying to get my girlfriend to have sex with me, but to no avail. So, I often masturbate using a doll. Is this dangerous?

Have a gentlemanly approach and do not enforce your sexual desires on your girlfriend if she is unwilling. Using a doll is wasting money. Masturbation will not affect your sexual health, if done thoughtfully. Masturbate only when sexually excited