COURSRTEY MIRROR APRIL 27

ASK THE SEXPERT
DR MAHINDER WATSA

1 I am a 48-year-old man and have white hair around the penis. Can you guide me as to what I should do about this?

To whom are you exhibiting your white hair and what difference has it made to your sexual experience? If nothing, just ignore it. And, if it continues to bother you, shave it off.

2 I cannot get sex off my mind. I will be 81 years old in a few months. I lost my wife over a year ago. My erections had dwindled some months before her demise, though we did manage to have sex occasionally— she preferred anal intercourse. After her passing, I tried masturbation but could not climax. I have managed by masturbating for the last few months, though no semen came out. I have two questions: Why do women prefer anal sex though their pleasure points are in front? Secondly, the changes I’m experiencing seem to fly in the face of popular belief. Are corrective measures advised?

In both issues, your assumptions are not correct. Regarding your second question, how your mind reacts after the loss of your wife is personal, and it’s normal to react differently from others. That anal intercourse is more enjoyed by women is incorrect. In fact, many women have negative thoughts regarding anal intercourse, but engaged in it as they feel compelled to succumb to their partner’s wishes.