COURSTEY MIRROR APRIL 26ASK THE SEXPERT
DR MAHINDER WATSA

1 I am 27 years old. Though I usually feel confident about the size of my penis, sometimes it shrinks, and this makes me worry. I started working out at a gym three months ago, and while exercising, the penis shrinks substantially. However, I have observed this ‘shrinking’ over the last two years. What should I do? Please don’t ask me to stop exercising.

Have no fear of your penis disappearing, as shrinking actually does not occur. During the day, your penis may contract to relax, but you will find it enlarged when an erection is required.

2 I am a 43-year-old man and I have been married for seven years. I live in a joint family, and I am happy with my wife and two children. My brother and his wife do not have a good sex life. He has been married for seven years, and though he’s older than me, he has no children. Two weeks ago, his wife propositioned me, saying that my brother does not like to touch her, and that it’s my duty to. She promised to never tell my wife. We had sex and I enjoyed it very much. Now, we have sex whenever we get the chance — sometimes, twice a day. I don’t want to stop and plan to get my wife’s permission to go on. If she consents, is there any other cause for concern?

It is a very critical and complicated issue and passing it to others for a solution (including your wife) is not a satisfactory way to resolve the issue. Ideally, you should stop all connections with your sisterin-law and focus on happiness with your wife and children. Have you thought of the repercussions if your brother or others in the family get to know? It is only you who can attend to this issue.