COURSTEY MIRROR APRI L24

ASK THE SEXPERT
DR MAHINDER WATSA

1 I am a 56-year-old single woman. My boyfriend is 48-yearsold and we have been in a sexual relationship for a long time. My boyfriend likes to be playful, touching my body in different ways, whenever we meet. Typically, we meet every weekend, at his place. He likes to finger my vagina and uses honey or chocolate sauce when he does this, after which both of us lick the liquid off his fingers. This act is enjoyable for both of us, but I’m worried about contracting infections. As we are also planning to settle down in life — and get married — is it possible to start a family? Please advise.

Since you are 56 years old, you would have either stopped menstruating, or must be on the verge of stopping, hence the chances of conception are not there. As a couple, you can always adopt a child. Since you have a single, loyal partner, you are not likely to contract any infection. Please inform Cadbury — the company may think it worthwhile to produce a special variety of product.

2 I am a 20-year-old woman. When I have sex with my boyfriend, even though he satisfies me sexually, I don’t orgasm easily. Can you suggest some techniques which would increase the pleasure in our relationship?

Buy a book on the Kamasutra to learn about different techniques which increase pleasure. Also, you and he can be more satisfied by stroking and caressing different parts of the body. It may surprise you and you may discover new pleasure points in the body, which will help you to reach orgasm earlier.