COURSTEY MIRRIOR  FEB  23
ASK THE SEXPERT
DR MAHINDER WATSA

1 I am 37 years old. I’m in a happy marriage and have twins -- a boy and a girl. On my wife’s insistence, we began having threesomes with her sister since my sister-inlaw’s husband is posted abroad. During sex, my sister-in-law applies some oil which makes the experience amazing and satisfies both of us. The problem is that my penis doesn’t subside to flaccid position after the act and it happens only after I take a bath. Is this a psychological problem or something is wrong with me?

It is neither psychological nor physical. If it is not bothering you, just tolerate it.

2 I’m 19 and my girlfriend is 18. When my girlfriend gets sexually excited, we enjoy having sex but after 10 minutes she loses and stops having sex with me. This leaves me frustrated. What can I do to keep her involved in sex for more time?

Ideally, being frank with each other and discussing what is best for each of you is the answer that will give both satisfaction. Incidentally after a sexual act, it is usual to relax, which you are referring to as her losing interest